Obviously eat better. But also eat LESS. Drink more water to fill the end gap. Eat slower so you get fuller faster. Don't cut anything out. Keep eating a bit of everything. It is good to have variation, but the constants as well. Non-gmo milk and dairy, though even so all dairy is bad for you in this monolithic food age.
Dont try to build mass right off the bat. You could potentially just add weight. Fat is long term mass for energy. You need to do long term items to burn it. You've got to make your body demand and burn the fat which is a slow process. SWIM. JOG (not run.) Swimming is great because it works the upper body better than just jogging.
When you do start to lose some, start making breakfast on 1 foot. Not way up in the air. Just off the ground slightly. This will improve your balance. Don't worry if you touch the floor allot to start, it's not a competition. Oh ya disclaimer: no sharp knives.
Likely you will still gain some weight starting off, because of the new muscle. It builds faster than the long term fat will burn. Muscle is heavier than fat.
So basically do long term and trim down. THEN you can work on lifting and toning yourself. You'll see results within 6mo. Dramitic in a year. My gf lost over 40lbs just jogging in 6mo. She's completely different than when I first met her almost. Myself, have been an Italian twig all my life, at 130ish+- ever since I kept track of that kind of thing. Funny I can cram cake, fast food, mixed with lard down my neck and it does nothing. So get to know your metabalism and work to it.
Don't try any suppliments or nutrition crap. 90% of it is designed to steal your money or get you addicted to it. Anything 3rd party like that is just going to interefere with your endrocrine system. Look up items that interfere with endrocrine, and avoid them. (air scent products, todays dairy, detergents, toothpaste ((use JUST baking soda on teeth,)) alcohol) you'd be surprised what is on the list. All of it will make you FAT and sick.)
As for DIRECT gym advise, quit. Also designed to steal your money. Swim. Jog. Then free lift. Take control of your food.
Best of luck! You can do it! Accept we are, literally, under attack, and take control of your body again.
Edited by EinDinHander, 04 March 2015 - 06:59 PM.