strygalldwir, on 13 March 2014 - 09:14 PM, said:
"They go their own way, cooperate in a oppurtunistic fashion and freely sacrifice eachother,"
Co-operation relies on trust.
After being used as a sacrifice a few times by premades I would never take orders or advice from a member of one again. When the time comes for a fight I will check the maps and make my own decisions on where I can do the most good for the team
When you talk about herding you just reinforce my view.
He's not talking as a premade. He's trying to help other single players lend some cohesion to the PuG environment, which often is the chaotic mess he describes. So when you give him pushback, you're arguing against someone who wants to cooperate with you, not "use you as a sacrifice." Leading PuGs, as I can attest from long experience in several different game formats, is a lot like herding cats.
As you say, cooperation does rely on trust - so why are you telling us we can't trust you? That's what your last paragraph communicates. (If you're just stating the painfully obvious fact that everyone makes decisions, you have succeeded in being tedious, but you're not really communicating anything of note. You're a sentient moral agent - of course you're making decisions! Why not also tell us that water is wet, or that blue is a color?) The figure of speech "making my own decisions," means that you're holding back. You're not going to cooperate unless you see a personal advantage - you can protest if you like that you said "best for the team," but your attitude belies your wording. You're not going to follow him as he leads by example, and spends his own armor to tell you where the enemies are, not unless you think it's "best."
Cooperation is best for the team, but you're going to do what
you decide to do, and no doggone premade is gonna boss
you around!
What you don't seem to have considered is that it is this kind of chaotic, anti-cooperative attitude that does cause many experienced premades to shun cooperation with pugs and use them as decoys and cannon fodder. The premades often feel vindicated by this practice, but their success is illusory - they think it's the PuGs' fault when the team fails, and their own superior tactics when it wins. In reality, they're just helping to create their end of the problem you've experienced in the past - a deliberate lack of cooperation due to cynicism and distrust. As long as you, and they, perpetuate the cycle, you'll continue to have bad experiences with premades, and those experiences will cause both you and they to distrust each other more - never realizing that you yourselves are each a source of the problem.
The amusing thing is that you don't matter. Unless you recognize someone who endorses this thread in-game, and sabotage them out of spite, you're going to be one of the infantile cats that the OP is herding. His entire post is a strategy for circumventing your exact kind of hostile, anti-social attitude in order to get you to actually give the cooperation to which you pay lip-service. So in the end, your objections don't count. You'll dance on your strings, the puppet of your own cynicism, and others will take you with them on their way to victory - or defeat.