MischiefSC, on 09 September 2014 - 05:59 PM, said:
One problem is that people confuse 'constructive criticism' with 'screaming profanity-laced rant full of direct personal insults'. 'I was just expressing my opinion'. If your opinion is a screaming tantrum.... well, honestly? It doesn't have a lot of value. It doesn't need listened to.
Most of what you said was repetitive in saying "If I (you) don't like the way you're communicating, then you don't deserve to be heard and has no value."
I have problems with that train of thought, I have learned that how someone communicates has no value and all content in communication needs to be heard, considered and understood in the context that it was given.
Example: Yeh you dumb ass mufuga don't go in that house it has a bomb in it!!! ( you would ignore this guy.. BOOM! )
VS:
Sir please don't do in that building, there is a bomb threat and we are concerned with your safety ( you would invite him to your house for dinner, he saved your life. He can date your sister with your blessings.
The fact is, they said the same thing and did the same thing if you where willing to listen despite the delivery.
The problem with some of the players (including me) is the passion that we have for the game Mechwarrior, we get excited when people clearly destroy the game for any reason. Those that think we're just losing our minds, being socially destructive, rude, can't relate to the people who have played this game for 20 years + and our lack of (music playing.. you know the song) DON'T WORRY BE HAPPY (song)
Listening to the players, ALL PLAYERS, is the only way any game survives bro.