"Whenever we're dealing with bad news, a difficult person, or a disappointment of some kind, most of us get into certain habits, ways of reacting(particularly adversity)that don't serve us very well. We overreact, blow things out of proportion, hold on too tightly, and focus on the negative aspects of life. When we are immobilized by little things(when we are irritated, annoyed, and easily bothered) our (over) reactions not only make us frustrated but actually get in the way of getting of what we want. We lose sight of the bigger picture, focus on the negative, and annoy other people who might otherwise help us. In short, we live our lives as if they were one great big emergency! We often rush around looking busy, trying to solve problems, but in reality, we are often compounding them. Because everything seems like such a big deal, we end up spending our lives dealing with one drama after another.
After a while, we begin to believe that everything really
is a big deal. We fail to recognize that the way we relate to our problems has a lot to do with how quickly and efficiently we solve them."
That was an excerpt from a book i started today, as i was reading it i thought of all of us here who don't have beta invites and i wanted to share with everyone that it doesn't really matter, sure we would all love to be in it true, but there's no reason to get upset about, or get mad, we will all get to play it eventually, so be happy for the ones that did.
Just make sure you shoot them later
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