
Get the "Board" (it's called tabletop or pencil and paper) Game.
I used to play DDO years ago and it was the best MMORPG imho (even better than WoW for my tastes). Then it got messed. No more Free to Play content was ever released, while tons over tons of real-money-paid stuff is/was added weekly, meaning you need to empty your wallet to build an ultimate munchkin like every other player, or getting stuck on a very basic and nearly useless character. Also, without spending big money, you won't have access to the majority of areas on the game and the best quests are paid.
You will never find role playing, neither nicely good-looking made characters with backgrounds or even basic role-played behaviors. Just people grinding around in characters with crazy-colored hairs and wearing the best-status items they found.
There is no tactical components anymore, just gather all the buffs you can (and there are TONS), build the best combo you can find and go whack things in munchkin groups, 'til you step on a godly trap that does some thousands of damage -to add immersion-...pfft.
Stopped playing it like 2 years ago and I have no intentions on coming back.
About the tabletop, I've been playing Advanced Dungeons and Dragons 2nd Edition since 2001 (Dungeon master since 2003) and never found a better medieval fantasy RPG. D&D3(.5) was nice, but i don't like the skill system at all. AD&D2 motivates roleplay and had a Tolkien feel, D&D3.5 motivates more hack'n'slash i think.
D&D4 is the worst, it was like they were trying to bring an japanese MMO to the tabletop and did it the worst way possible. I don't want to play along a half-dragon-half-orc-spellweaver-gladiator-masterofshadows, i don't want to tell a story about a half-angel-half-halfling-barbarian-enchanter. I don't want to throw hordes of enemies just to test their multi-combos-of-doom.
I don't have a personal opinion about D&D5, yet, but i heard some good things about it. Might give a try, soon, but won't risk spending money on the books until I try it.
So...
If you like adventures with the Lord of The Rings / The Hobbit (the book, for god's sake!) feel, go for AD&D2.
If you prefer a mix between Lord of the Rings and Diablo 2, go for D&D3.5,
If you like Diablo 3, japanese MMOs where everybody has wings and combos everywhere, D&D4.
If you think that only newer things are better, go for D&D5
