JC Daxion, on 17 April 2015 - 11:48 AM, said:
Trouble is, that's exactly what a lot of people do say. Not "let's play bad 'mech builds," but "I play the game my way, to have fun." It sounds good until you realize that they are saying this in response to being told that their builds aren't optimal. So they essentially stamp their foot, stick out their tongue, and sa "NUH-uh!" Are the people telling them to "go meta" inflexible and dogmatic? Not always; and whether or not that's the case, it's still foolish to reject experienced players' viewpoints out of hand because you don't feel they're nice enough about giving them, or because it's not what you want to hear.
Again, I can't get behind telling new players to never use non-meta weapons, like LRMs earlier in this thread. It's good to get to know all the weapons in the game (except the flamer; no one needs a flamer,) but players need to accept that the reason so many of us use meta-game builds is because those builds work better mechanically in the game. Not being good with Weapon X has a solution: practice. You don't have to give up the builds you find more effective, but you do have to recognize that proficiency in those weapon systems is important to playing your best. I'm sympathetic to those who feel they're being told that they have to use certain builds, or else they're bad ("Mana Tide saves raids!" "No it doesn't! You don't even notice when I pop it, and you're not using it right, anyway! It's a level 40 mana potion! Do the MATH!") However, I've also had to try to get a team together when people insist on playing their Special Snowflake builds instead of just bringing a fracking AC/20.