I have been playing MWO on and off more or less since Beta. and I do in principle enjoy and like that game.
1) If I play solo, great. I have good games, I get 500ish damage and the odd kill in my mediums upwards. I win, I lose it seems ok really.
However....if I team up in a Duo with my brother it becomes frustrating to the point I almost want to quit the game. We will have game after game of being trashed more or less 12 - 0. night after night, and sometimes magically we will have a night where we win most games. However more often than not we're getting Nascar'd to oblivion.... whats up??? can anyone explain why this is? or what I/we can do to change this? Oddly We've found the more people on our team who are in the same clan the worse the team does

2) Slightly different point, but was wondering where I could be going wrong, I enjoy playing all types of mechs. But Lights are becoming near unplayable for me. I have a Raven, Spider, Piranha, Mist Lynx, 3 Kit foxes, 3 Adders.
My adders are fine and my kit foxes are reasonable
Anything else. I die way to fast. Especially the Raven. I've put skills in mobility and survival and despite running about at a fair 147kph it seems I'm only good for 1 or 2 shots from anything and I'm dead (no exaggeration) Even a glancing sweep from a laser seems to put my arms and torso pieces orange..... I haven't changed the armour drastically other than shift some from the rear to the front. The same goes for my other lights in just varying degrees, the mist lynx is the next on the list that gets fragged as soon as a mech looks at me, then spider, and then piranha (that seems to take more of a beating).
The confusion comes from when I see other lights they seem to take WAAAY more damage than what I would. I try to torso twist and spread the best I can but when you only take 2-5 shots there's not much I can do.....
i know it's hard to decipher from someones forum ramblings but is there something that I could be doing catastrophically wrong?