Cryptozoology, on 30 April 2013 - 10:10 PM, said:
pls expand on why women who fall into your definition of attractiveness need to be put on display and why objectified womens' absence is a make-or-break deal for you
Lol. Serious or troll? Maybe both? Am I serious or troll? Maybe both. I've no objections to a male hula dancer. I wouldn't get one. I'll leave the reasons why to your imagination. Do you have as many issues with objectifying men in the same way?
Scantily clad humans of any physique will always be attractive to at least one other human because we are biologically hard-wired to react to secondary sex characteristics. If you deny that people are attracted to other people for the purposes of reproduction, then there is no satisfactory answer for you. Standards of beauty do exist and vary from culture to culture. Images of the current standard of beauty are no different than fertility statues featuring men and women with exaggerated secondary sex characteristics from the Stone Age.
Some contemporary humans attempt to downplay our biological drives in an attempt to be "progressive" and "civilized." Contemporary humans are no different, physically or mentally, from our earliest forebears. Now that many of us don't have to hunt and gather, we think we are more advanced and smarter than our biology. Most men enjoy viewing "fertility statues" of their era. Most women enjoy viewing "fertility statues" of men of their era. It's not right or wrong to find a member of the opposite sex attractive, it simply "is."
I won't address homosexuality here, other than to say it exists on a spectrum, and does not have the moral implication that many would ascribe to it. It is simply another function of our biology.
I don't like "Cosmopolitan" magazine because they portray unrealistic female forms and encourage feelings of inadequacy amongst females. My wife thinks she needs to have 20 purses and 100 pairs of shoes to be "fashionable." I tell her she is beautiful and does not need all that stuff to be attractive. Also, to be honest, I don't necessarily think the images presented in many fashion portrayals are of attractive members of the opposite sex.
I do like "Playboy" magazine because they present fertility statues that I do find attractive. Playboy also presents images that are often not representative of the typical female form and encourage feelings of inadequacy amongst women. How do I reconcile the implicit hypocrisy in this statement? Simple. I like what I like and you can't stop me. I accept my biology. I married a woman that generally accepts her biology. I don't pretend to be offended when she finds some random dude attractive. She doesn't pretend that I went blind when we got married.
TL:DR
If you don't want to view contemporary fertility statues for whatever reason, don't. I applaud your efforts at homogenization of our species. However, I don't think you will ever be successful at making the rest of us ***** (rhymes with thorny) animals see your point that we should be offended by something we find beautiful.
Edit: clarify blocked word
Edited by ThinkTank, 01 May 2013 - 12:08 PM.