Heffay, on 17 September 2013 - 06:46 AM, said:
In your world, you can never change your mind?
That's a horrible place!
You tell your friend, "Hey, I won't try to date your sister." You swear up and down you are not attracted to her, you explain to your friend and his friends that you are not attracted to her and that this simply will never happen so there is nothing to worry about.
You later say "Hey, I think your sister is kind of cute..." and your friend freaks out and his friends freak out so you back off and say "Whoa, hey, no worries, I'm not going to go after her, just saying she is cute..."
Again, friend calms down, figures this is settled, you all move on.
Then one day, you sneak into your friend's house and do unmentionable things to his sister. Friend is rightfully a bit pissed off, yes?
Sure, you are allowed to change your mind.
Those who interact with you are free to be very @#$%ing angry when you go back on your word, change your mind, and do something to them you had been swearing you would not do, and you do it via a massive {Richard Cameron}-move surprise change with no warning and then a bumbling, poorly worded, insincere apology that drives a further wedge between you and those you are apologizing to.