Wintersdark, on 03 August 2014 - 08:00 AM, said:
What happens is this: I have multiple small children. Small children very often require attention for some reason or another right now and for an undetermined amount of time. They require a measure of attention at all times, too.
My gaming PC is in the living room, because the only way I can game at all is when I can also watch children. So, any gaming I do here is done around the rest of my family, so I'm also talking to my wife and kids all the time too. This does make Teamspeak awkward at times (tracking multiple conversations is a PITA while gaming). If a baby has fallen asleep, talking is right the hell out (because YOU DO NOT WAKE THE BABY.) Or if they're watching a movie, it's hard for me to hear people talking and god help them if I queue up my mic.
I also work shiftwork. 7am-7pm, 7pm-7am, rotating weekly, or 7am-3pm, 3pm-11pm, 11pm-7am rotating weekly. While the shifts change weekly, they don't often follow a set pattern. I work roughly half my weekends.
So, I can friend people, and get a drop, sometimes two, then I inevitably need to drop group for some random amount of time from a couple minutes to until next tuesday.
So, yeah, I can get some group drops in, but it's such a pain in the ass and I'm also as a result a bit of a pain in the ass for the group in question, that it's often easier to just play solo.
With the new group system, it really isn't a big deal if you have to drop after a match or two. It's not like this is a job where you're supposed to be there during office hours 5 days a week. Just show up whenever for however long you want. As far as teamspeak, most people wont really care if you can't or wont speak.
You're making this seem way harder than it is.