Alistair Winter, on 28 August 2014 - 07:39 AM, said:
I'm not offended at all, as your comment wasn't directed at me. I just recommended a more civil tone. As someone who regularly engages with other forum members because you disapprove of their QQing, I would have thought you could emphathize with someone trying to keep things civil.
I don't imagine you're offended when people complain about the game, but you'd rather the forum had less of it. For me, I don't care if people complain or celebrate, but I do recommend civility. I'd rather see a forum where people didn't resort to name-calling, especially in response to such trivial comments.
You are correct. Most times I try. Sometimes, I fail. Usually when I fail, it's because of a stupid idea that has been run into the ground (like I honestly have no patience for the LRM QQ anymore. It's literally a L2P problem, and sadly, most "gamers, appear to want it ez instead of having to think before acting), or because one of our regulars, has ticked me off. And I am always on a see-saw with Roland. He can make some very very good points. And He can be obstinate pig headed, regardless of results to the contrary once he has an idea locked in his head. Not a huge deal, mos tof the more prominent Forum posters can have the same said about them, including yours truly. I expect to lock horns, from time to times over stuff.
But at times, certain individuals can get into a habit of patronizing commentary which contributes little, but wears thin. This was IMO; an instance, thereof. Should I have bit my tongue? Undoubtedly. But also, someone, sometimes, needs to speak up and say hey, "don't be a ****".
Educating players on the pros and cons of the game is great. Patronizing is not educating. And the comment, I found to be highly pàtronizng. Not the first, won't be the last, I am sure.
At this point, continuing the conversation about it, I submit causes more "forum disturbance" than the actual comment.
Roland, on 28 August 2014 - 07:45 AM, said:
What was the post I made that was offensive?
I'm offensive all the time, but I don't think I was in THIS thread.
acknowledgement is the first step to recovery. We have our "Angry Forum Posters Anonymous" meetings, tuesdays, at 730 pst. We have cookies.
In truth, it was far from one of your "most offensive" comments, and the verbiage itself was not in itself offensive. But I found the general presumption of your OP in regard to this Topic lacking in anything actually helpful, and the tone, came off to me, as dismissive and arrogant, in a thread where the OP was actually asking for detailed info. Yes, we know Twolf better. We know your opinion on it too, as you have posted it, many times. I simply (and admittedly I was also in a foul mood at the time, courtesy of the stupid weekend challenge and other PGI related issues) took exception to your post and my perception of it.
Edited by Bishop Steiner, 28 August 2014 - 07:59 AM.