I think tone of voice is pretty important. In 2 memorable matches, there was this one guy who angrily ordered players to do stuff from the start, and when they don't do it, bemoans that he got stuck with an "idiot team"
Sometimes, if you come across as too arrogant, people just do the opposite. In the first match, the guy wanted us to head to a nearby location to meetup before moving forward. What everyone did was to scatter as far across the map as possible. In the second match, someone unloaded a full alpha into his back, after he kept whinging about how we're idiots, ggclose, etc. because we were not sticking close enough to him (this was canyon, all of us was in a single canyon, we were very close) We won the match, via stomp, it was 12-1, with him being the only casualty. The rest of the match was just him angrily screaming expletives while people mocked him on teamspeak.
so the next time before you touch the keyboard, or hold caps lock to angrily order these "noobs" around, do consider that we are not your slaves or servants to order around.
I find that people listen if you ask even in a neutral tone. I do, and people do listen most of the time.
Fate 6, on 24 June 2015 - 11:45 AM, said:
You can always tell who a sore loser is when someone asks for PvE. Some people just can't handle PvP cuz it's too hard and they want to win ezmode all day.
That said, sometimes your team simply sucks. I know it's my fault for doing only 70 damage but if I do 800 with 3 solo kills then it's probably not my fault we lost. I could always do better, but in reality that also applies to anyone. Improving a score from 100 to 300 is often easier than going from 800 to 1000
lol. I have a good KDR, and I still want PVE. Pretty sure almost everyone here wants PVE to muck around in. PVE has been the mainstay of mechwarrior till MWO. Sometimes people want a little variety, especially after hundreds of drops in the same few maps, in the same 3 gamemodes.