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There was no need to order people around immediately at the start of the match. Solo queue is not a coordinated group and chances are very high that your orders will be ineffective when you don't know peoples' builds, how they play, and how well they play. Note that (just like I said above) this doesn't mean you can't use VOIP, but if you're offering much more than simple enemy locations or a request for help and people get annoyed at you then it's time to consider talking a lot less or if you can't handle that then not at all.
I did not order anyone around. Never once did I say "Atlas, move to D5 and support playerX" or Charlie Lance get your butt in gear and push G4". I ASKED if anyone had a way they wanted to play the match, quick push, snipe war, advance to the middle where we normally meet the enemy, whatever. I do not really care what the plan is, as long as everyone on the team is, you know, acting like they are on a team. I find that in most matches you get a decent amount of response by being polite, calling out targets and UAVs, warning players about a possible problem ("Ebon Jag in H8, just saw a couple mechs moving on the other side of that building, watch your 6") I try very hard to NOT issue "orders" Why would anyone want orders from me, someone they do not know, in a PUG. I simply try to relay information that I think is needed for a successful match. I am sure I am missing a lot of stuff, but I am at least trying to get involved with my random group of PUGs and hoping that we can work together and pull out the win.
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How many annoyed teammates does it take to get the point anyways?
I do not think I was being overly annoying, nor was I demonstrating diarrhea of the mouth. I was silent far more than I was talking. I am very, very familiar with comm protocols, giving a concise report, and then shutting up for another's communication. (paramedic for 16 years, including 3 years as a contract Medic in Iraq and Afghanistan, believe me, I know my radio discipline)
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It is dictating to order people to a certain location right away and then tell them to sit on their *** while some chump may or may not actually do a good job at scouting, and to get butt ravaged about somebody saying to be quiet tells me that the problem is not with other people.
I did NONE of that, nor do I ever order anyone, at any time. Ever. I might suggest a course of action, I might encourage the team to move to a certain location, but they have just as much right to go wherever they want on the map that I do. I will support my team, even if I think they are making a bad play. Seriously, I have never told a teammate what to do, as a matter of fact I have never even offered "advice" on improving their build (no matter how schizophrenic I found it). The absolute worst that do is say something like "Looks like they are on the other side of the hill at G8, could someone pop a UAV?" or "Big mess of bad guys in H11, could use some support if possible"
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That doesn't necessitate ordering the whole team around right at the start without considering a myriad of other factors. The match should flow pretty well without somebody barking orders constantly because there's a lot of information to be had from the radar most of the time, but you can of course give a little tug by calling enemy locations or checking on a teammate in a big assault mech that got left behind or something like that.
I have already explained that I do not order peple around, so I will not belabor the point. I do try to watch the positions of my teammates (I am not always successful), and will encourage the group to wait for the slower mechs, or at least try to give them some cover if I can.
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If you see your team making an obviously bad play such as the usual NASCAR garbage where the assaults get left behind simply due to their slower speed, then yeah you can try to be more assertive and order people around in order to correct that, but otherwise if you're just barking orders at a bunch of solo pugs it tends to be more annoying than anything else.
I do not even mind it when we NASCAR, as long as the whole team is doing it, calling targets and at least attempting to focus fire. And you are correct, barking orders at PUGS is rude, pointless and useless. That is why I do not do it.