"gg" Is Not A Review
#1
Posted 19 July 2017 - 07:07 AM
When someone says "GG" after a match, their motives might not be the same as yours.
For some people, like myself, it's an expression of mutual respect. It is not a review of the relative quality of the match.
For some people it is a validation that they found the game good, interesting or in other ways generally worthwhile in retrospect.
If you swing one way and not the other, please have the common courtesy to not spew vitriol into chat because the way in which one player uses it differs from yours.
I say goodbye to customer support by saying "thanks, you've been great" even when they've just been acceptable at best. It costs me nothing and it leaves us all intact as a person at the end of a conversation. This is for the most part a game with a relatively high average age and sometimes it wouldn't hurt to conduct ourselves accordingly.
I have no ownership over you not having enjoyed a match and you have no ownership over when I say gg.
The same obviously goes for similar expressions of courtesy. Don't be an ***.
#2
Posted 19 July 2017 - 07:12 AM
Be humble in defeat and magnanimous in victory.
#3
Posted 19 July 2017 - 07:22 AM
So really anymore its just 2 letters that someone mashed before mashing ESC.. Its lost any respectful meaning.
If somone types "Good Game" out or other general congratulatory or respectful comments then thats a nice thing.. But gg is lame now and just 1 letter of 26 that anyone can mash.. look i can mash letters too a;lkd;salkdf;lakdjf;alkdsj;ljfasldhgklhj
#4
Posted 19 July 2017 - 07:22 AM
12-2 isn't a good game.
Once upon a time, a long time ago, I was a punkass kid that played a lot of StarCraft. I had a nasty habit of saying "gl hf" at the beginning of every game, which seemed innocuous enough. But I never meant good luck to them, what I really meant was "good luck... you'll need it, have fun while I teabag your ***!"
When I ended up winning, I would say "gg" and sometimes even say it well before my opponent lost--I meant it in a disparaging way.
12-2 isn't a good game, it is a bad game, that likely wasn't fun for the other team, either because they sucked(quite likely were full of bad players), or the matchmaker hosed the game. Usually it is a combination of the two because bad players shouldn't be stacked together, as they end up cowering behind rocks and wait to die.
So if you 12-2 another team, the best thing to say is nothing at all. And if you really feel the urge to say something, trash talk the matchmaker, or show empathy by saying "tough break." You get the idea.
p.s. An alternative for "gl hf" might be ESAD. It is an acronym. And it means something. But at least it's honest...
Edited by Mister Blastman, 19 July 2017 - 07:46 AM.
#5
Posted 19 July 2017 - 07:28 AM
It is an observation of mine, that good-natured teams win more and deal with defeat better than bags of spilt salt. It gets bitter sometimes, and here's a pro-tip on how to handle the aftermath of a particularly vexing match: Exit and be done with it.
gl&hf
#6
Posted 19 July 2017 - 07:34 AM
surely if you want to show your regard for red team you can be fussed to type more than two letters?
#7
Posted 19 July 2017 - 07:40 AM
#9
Posted 19 July 2017 - 07:43 AM
I do take offense to anyone bad mouthing thier team. Again, especially the "victims" that don't talk all round then get pissed that the group lost.
Also I don't always "o7" at the start of the game, but if someone on the red team throws one out there I don't leave them hanging.
Edited by Archer Magnus, 19 July 2017 - 07:44 AM.
#11
Posted 19 July 2017 - 07:44 AM
ShoX, on 19 July 2017 - 07:07 AM, said:
When someone says "GG" after a match, their motives might not be the same as yours.
For some people, like myself, it's an expression of mutual respect. It is not a review of the relative quality of the match.
For some people it is a validation that they found the game good, interesting or in other ways generally worthwhile in retrospect.
[...]
It actually once was a review of the quality of the match. ("back when I was young ..." *cough*)
Then some people diluted it to some hollow formula of "it's over" (meaning both respect for the victor and domination over the loser)
Today, I'm way past being upset of that dilution.
Today, it means all kinds of things.
Good quality, respect, taunting the loser, sarcasm about a stomp, whatever.
So I would second your point: it means different things for different people. That's what dilution of a term causes.
Originally, it was to express a good quality of the match.
#12
Posted 19 July 2017 - 07:46 AM
JadePanther, on 19 July 2017 - 07:22 AM, said:
So really anymore its just 2 letters that someone mashed before mashing ESC.. Its lost any respectful meaning.
If somone types "Good Game" out or other general congratulatory or respectful comments then thats a nice thing.. But gg is lame now and just 1 letter of 26 that anyone can mash.. look i can mash letters too a;lkd;salkdf;lakdjf;alkdsj;ljfasldhgklhj
wow if 2 letters gets you triggered........
And obviously it hasn't lost any respectful meaning if as the OP just stated it still does for many people. Get off your high horse and quest to be offended.
#13
Posted 19 July 2017 - 07:46 AM
ThoseWhoFearTomorrow, on 19 July 2017 - 07:42 AM, said:
This.
A couple of responses in this thread are too emotionally invested lol
I do think the second line I posted was more poignant: Be humble in defeat and magnanimous in victory.
People seem to forget that it is a game, after all. That on the other end of the internet somewhere are human beings. We're all here to have fun, and winning is generally fun. If you win the match, you don't have to be a **** about it. But likewise, if you lose the match, you don't have to be a **** about it.
#14
Posted 19 July 2017 - 07:47 AM
Mister Blastman, on 19 July 2017 - 07:22 AM, said:
12-2 isn't a good game.
Once upon a time, a long time ago, I was a punkass kid that played a lot of StarCraft. I had a nasty habit of saying "gl hf" at the beginning of every game, which seemed innocuous enough. But I never meant good luck to them, what I really meant was "good luck... you'll need it, have fun while I teabag your ***!"
When I ended up winning, I would say "gg" and sometimes even say it well before my opponent lost--I meant it in a disparaging way.
12-2 isn't a good game, it is a bad game, that likely wasn't fun for the other team, either because they sucked(quite likely were full of bad players), or the matchmaker hosed the game. Usually it is a combination of the two because bad players shouldn't be stacked together, as they end up cowering behind rocks and wait to die.
So if you 12-2 another team, the best thing to say is nothing at all. And if you really feel the urge to say something, trash talk the matchmaker, or show empathy by saying "tough break." You get the idea.
p.s. An alternative for "gl hf" might be ESAD. It is an acronym. And it means something. But at least it's honest...
if you choose to get triggered that's on you. And yes there are some people who are well known for being dbags about things...like GGClose.
But blame those dbags for your being triggered instead of assuming motives on others.
#15
Posted 19 July 2017 - 07:48 AM
#16
Posted 19 July 2017 - 07:48 AM
TheB33p, on 19 July 2017 - 07:28 AM, said:
It is an observation of mine, that good-natured teams win more and deal with defeat better than bags of spilt salt. It gets bitter sometimes, and here's a pro-tip on how to handle the aftermath of a particularly vexing match: Exit and be done with it.
gl&hf
GG that!
(or as some of my Irish friends say...fair play!
#17
Posted 19 July 2017 - 07:49 AM
Bishop Steiner, on 19 July 2017 - 07:47 AM, said:
But blame those dbags for your being triggered instead of assuming motives on others.
-1000 points of respect for using the word "triggered."
That word should be flushed down a toilet.
12-2 rolls are more like, "Bleep you, PGI matchmaker, bleep you."
Four minutes of gametime plus 3 - 5 minutes of search are permanently lost to a poor quality waste of time.
Edited by Mister Blastman, 19 July 2017 - 07:50 AM.
#19
Posted 19 July 2017 - 07:51 AM
AssaultPig, on 19 July 2017 - 07:34 AM, said:
surely if you want to show your regard for red team you can be fussed to type more than two letters?
The trouble with your supposition is the expectation that someone sticks around long enough after the match is over to actually see "Good game." GG is faster to type.
QuantumButler, on 19 July 2017 - 07:48 AM, said:
Only for small-minded people.
#20
Posted 19 July 2017 - 07:53 AM
Mister Blastman, on 19 July 2017 - 07:49 AM, said:
-1000 points of respect for using the word "triggered."
That word should be flushed down a toilet.
12-2 rolls are more like, "Bleep you, PGI matchmaker, bleep you."
so should people getting butthurt and QQing over GG.
I've also seen people get triggered over "o7" "<o" or a simple "cheers".
Which tells me there are too many high strung wound people playing games, who because they are by nature, ultra competitive and probably rude, condescending and disrespectful, automatically project that on the world around them, too.
Maybe if people would grow the hell up and realize they are playing a game, it would be the first step in avoiding being perpetually butthurt?
Just a thought.
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