ramp4ge, on 26 February 2018 - 02:47 PM, said:
How am I failing when you still haven't even attempted to justify the comparison you made that I called you on?
If everyone is free to fail, why do we need your interjection about everyone not agreeing with you being comparable to someone you (presumably) shot at in Iraq?
There's no reason it can't. Meritocracy is how the real world actually works, contrary to what you might be lead to believe.
Which is exactly why feelings pale in the shadow of reality. And at no point do feelings overshadow reality. Unless you chose to allow them to. I do not want to live in a society where I am compelled to put someone's feelings over the reality that I am witnessing with my own eyes.
Reality is subjective to the individual my friend.
There are universal constants sure... but it's a scientific fact, that reality is subjective to the individual. All you need to do, is question people who witnessed a specific event, each person's retelling of the event, will be different... because the human brain fills in gaps.
So now the question comes, who's reality is what matters?
I agree, feelings pale in comparison to fact, I've caught a TON of **** for my stance on viewing serving in the military as just another job, and that when a solider get's killed, it's all part of the job, they knew the risks going in... I don't view it as something to be celebrated or grieved over, I don't see them as hero's, I see them as people doing a job, nothing more... but put that viewpoint forward to a military family who just lost someone in combat... and you're going to piss a LOT of people off...
so, who's reality matters in an instance like that? Mine, or theirs?