Short story about a real life friend of mine:
Let's call him 'Steve'.
Steve was a keen TF2 player. I always hated TF2 so I never played with him.
At some point when he had a beer in the evening he was complaining about 'TS coordinated teams breaking TF2, killing all the fun blah blah.'
My reply was simply 'why don't you just get in contact with other players you see regurlarly on the servers?' - 'No need to do, it works as well without'. - 'So what are you complaining about.?'
Those days I was a MWLL nerd, always wanted to get him playing it as well. At some point he tried it out himself.
'MWLL sucks. It is a great game but the community is so BS. Everybody is connected via voip and have their unfair advantage. I hate it.'
I gave up.
One evening he visited me at my place, drinking beer ect.
At some point I just stood up, started MWLL, started TS, logged into my units channel and told them that it isn't me who is just playing.
And forced Steve to sit down an play and pushed my headset onto his ears.
'Don't need it, no need to talk with others. Ingame chat is all I need to...' - '****. Don't talk, play your game, listen to them just to know what they are doing.'
After ~20min of gaming & listening he himself said 'engaging target Bravo, MadCat C'
Reply from my unit was not 'who is talking?' or 'nice for you' or 'who cares'. This was what he expected.
It was just 'acknowledged', 'ten four', 'assisting', 'closing in for support', 'LRM on their way' and one 'sorry, rtb, rearm'.
-> Afterwards Steve started to talk like intended.
Around one hour later we dropped gaming and focussed more on the beer.
Steve still was impressed. He claimed he just had one of the best gaming experiences ever.
Needless to say that he afterwards used his headset not only for skyping with his girlfriend anymore like before.
What I took out of it:
Many people, no matter what they do or behave in real life, have an issue getting into 'personal' contact with random people in games. The reasons why they behave that way may differ and are not on me to call out.
And recalling my own behaviour for the very first time using voip ('99, Delta Force 1, using Roger Wilco): OMG - but it got me hooked.
Edited by Ragor, 26 January 2013 - 08:21 AM.