Tesunie, on 21 February 2015 - 08:45 AM, said:
Now you are acting like the group of people that we've been asking to stop acting that way (not all Kuritains, just a small group of them to be clear). We can't ask them to stop if we are going to act the same exact way.
To each other no less.
War 4H, I respect and understand your position in all of this. The "olive branch" here was not necessarily ignored or refused. Talks are happening from my knowledge between each side's higher ups. But it's hard to take a peace offering when other members (not Lord Ikka) of their command seem to support the people which are making us irritated, if not joining into those same actions.
I'm all for peace, but Kurita command should clean up their acts before I can respect them again. NKVA group can be ignored. The House Kurita command is a bit harder to ignore.
Fair enough and apologies, but then, War isn't a Kuritan. He's wearing Marik colors and attempting to precipitate the very inter-faction tensions he throws around accusations of and explicitly states he's not here to attempt any constructive activity.
In any case, there are clearly issues to resolve between our factions, but I think what's needed more than anything is just communication on what we're doing in the first place, on both sides. You can't solely point at Kurita for forum trolls, and honestly, it seems far too little communication has taken place in the wake of things here, or leading up to them. Our leadership wasn't even aware that elements of Kurita were open to sitting down and having a discussion when they were first offering a dialogue. It was some grand surprise for the leadership present at the time when I went to my superior with that information after some discussion with NS. That alone suggests a fairly serious breakdown to me. Don't even get me started on the wildly divergent narratives that seem to have formed between the two factions on events that lead up to the wormhole fight.
Even now, I'm not sure any significant communication has gone on between factions, though I hope it has. It hasn't been indicated to me by contacts in either faction.
I think all of this can be avoided in the future just by having better lines of communication and better staying on the same page, and above all, at this point, by trying to refrain from pointing at either leadership and saying "but they're supporting [insert grievance]!". There will be a place for that later in discussions, but right now, all I see openly is both sides' leadership calling to tone that down.
Edited by Catamount, 21 February 2015 - 06:30 PM.