Vellron2005, on 29 June 2015 - 04:22 AM, said:
I don't try to lead anymore, since the PUG's lisen to commands about 12% of the time. (its frustrating)
That's odd, when I suggest ideas by typing people are often on board with it, very often. I'm surprised it works so much. I don't know you, but are you certain its not your approach or your tone of voice? People don't like random strangers acting authoritative.
I'll hazard a guess and I can try to read from the way you formulate things you could be one of those people. I don't try "to lead", "PUGs won't listen" suggests to me you have a very firm aprroach.
You mention your drop commander. The same approach to comms as in organized play simply won't work in PUG for the aforementioned reason.
You don't get to be the defacto leader, you giving orders is not a given. We don't care what you do in organized play, we don't care how good you are or if you're a drop leader and what you do with your buddies. Yet A LOT of people just run in thinking they can run the show with an attitude to match.
If this happens I NEVER follow orders, you're not my leader buddy, you're some random kid in front of a computer. If however someone has a normal tone of voice I'm ALWAYS on board no matter how dumb I think it is, it just might work if enough people do it.
Again I don't know you, I don't know how you approach this, but my hunch is it might be this.
I suggest a very modest approach, not giving orders, but suggestions in a calm and neutral tone of voice, if you can muster that try it a few times, see how it works.
Edited by Louis Brofist, 29 June 2015 - 05:11 AM.