Welcome to the game Freibier Fred!
Generally, all issues you raised here are well known and - at least according to PGI - are being or will be addressed.
UI - this is the new UI, introduced last month. It's working, but fully finished ATM, they didn't scale it for all possible resolutions yet. But no worries, they improve it with every patch. It was worse on Monday
Lack of proper, comprehensive tutorial - community raised that issue a thousand of times. Unfortunately in the past the game development was veeeery stagnant, almost no development at all. Some time ago, they PGI 'divorced' its publisher (greedy ******** I heard) and started to develop the game the way it should be developed. They have a nice pace now, there's just so much old issues to resolve...
The other thing related to the New Player Experience issue that you should know, is that other mechanised team pvp games like WOT or WT are designed around 'escalating grind' philosophy. They are very noob friendly, easy to 'level up' and easy to play at the beginning, but with time get more and more and more grindy, to the point that getting a new machine takes months, and/or using 'top' machines is so expensive you have to play lower tiers to have money, because you loose money on higher tiers.... MWO is completely different in that aspect, it strives to make all mechs equal. The grind to get your first mech is not shorter than the grind to get your 150th mech. It's more about collecting machines and seeking ones you like than gaining 'levels'. Also, once you master a good chassis that fits your playstyle, maybe slap in a few modules on it, you're equal to all other players out there. Nobody can 'outtech you'.
The downside of this is the problem of new players being at veery noticeable disadvantage untill they at least basic their first mech. PGI promised to deal with that issue soon™.
Your load times (not wait times, load times) seem to be very slow to me. My PC is rather outdated and it loads much faster than yours. And I couldn't even run the resolution you use, I would have slideshow framerate
. Some compatibility issues?
Waiting for the match - What servers do you play on? If you play only on one of them, the wait times will be slow. MWO is designed in such a way, that you can play quite comfortably if under 200 ping on a given server. Heck, I got 300 on Oceanic and I *can* play there (even broke my kill/damage record on that server!), but with ping like that, it's not really comfortable (e.g. the delay makes peeking out of corners a damn chore, it's better to jump from cover to cover than peek). Europeans and people from North America usually use both NA and EU servers.
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EDIT: bad arcade kitty means player tiers. A new way to categorise people by their combat effectiveness to create equal matches. V means veeery bad, I means veery good. New people start at IV.
But that's a side note, you generally don't need to take bad arcade kitty seriously. Don't bother.
Edited by Prof RJ Gumby, 19 August 2015 - 11:47 PM.