Meep Meep, on 20 July 2025 - 09:31 PM, said:
What about any of my posts on the subject cast any negativity on pride members? I would assume that if my posts really were bigoted and attacking pride members they would have been deleted and moderation action taken? All I have asked is give an outline to add it in just like any screener for any ip would do? No one who controls an ip adds in stuff 'just because'. I didn't even start the convo I just replied to it. I think I have been exceedingly reasonable so far.

I will lay this out for you, because this is a very common mistake and also one of the most common forms of recognized transmisia (which I have linked
the definition of before, but in short: transphobia is technically "fear of LGBTQ+ people" while transmisia is "
hatred of LGBTQ+ people.")
What you are doing is something I refer to as "Over There-ing" all LGBTQ+ people. Which is to say you constantly and continually claim that we can be ourselves and celebrate our own identities...so long as we do it
Over There. With "Over There" being somewhere you don't have to look at it, see it, hear about it, or acknowledge its existence -
or ours - in any way. Essentially, telling us we are not permitted to be ourselves anywhere that, to coin a common phrase, Right-Thinking Decent Folk(C) can
see it, because there's something inherently perverse, unclean, and impure about our identities and we shouldn't be imposing those impurities on anyone else.
With all due respect: f*** that noise forever.
You ask why 'everybody' doesn't get representation? In an ideal world, they would! But we don't live in an ideal world, do we? We live in a world where millions and millions of people in my nation are fighting their absolute hardest to erase and eradicate us, oftentimes with physical violence, and many other nations have outlawed us on pain of state-sanctioned execution. Nobody is fighting to exclude Christians or Christianity from things, or at least not at any significant scale here in the United States.
Christians do not
need representation and acknowledgement - though, again, in a perfect world they would receive it anyways - because they are already accepted as being perfectly normal people whose beliefs and ideals should generally be respected. LGBTQ+ people do not enjoy such a luxury. You are fighting to deny us this representation and our efforts to become accepted while doing
absolutely nothing to offer us the luxury of simply
being accepted that you enjoy so freely you are completely blind to it.
That is called 'privilege', and those who benefit from it have to understand that redressing the imbalance sometimes feels unfair simply because "the way it's always been" has been unfair for so long that nobody thinks about it anymore. Doesn't mean what you perceive as "unfair" is
actually unfair. Simply that you should try and broaden your worldview, if you can.
And because
this is a gigantic personal pet peeve and anger point of mine on this whole topic...
LordNothing, on 21 July 2025 - 05:02 AM, said:
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indoctrinate children
...
NONE OF US ARE TRYING TO INDOCTRINATE YOUR FREAKING KIDS!!!! DO NOT ACCUSE US OF IT!!!
LGBTQ+ people wish for the existence of LGBTQ+ people to be part of basic education because
we exist, and children deserve to know LGBTQ+ people exist the same way they know of people of different races, different creeds, or different nationalities. One of the biggest ways in which fundamentalist conservative jackholes - regardless of which creed they claim - try to erase us from existence forever is by ensuring
nobody has a single freaking clue we exist until they're in their twenties and all their worldview has already been largely set. They think "if we can stop our kids from learning them queers exist, then our kids won't be queer and we can teach 'em to hate queers like good right-thinking decent folk!", which is both an
agonizing misunderstanding of how sexuality and identity work and also just vicious-minded to start with.
Basic education is
NOT(!!!) "indoctrination", and it is
all we are asking for.
Edited by 1453 R, 21 July 2025 - 05:58 AM.