Nekki Basara, on 23 September 2013 - 04:06 PM, said:
How is treating someone as if they are an inferior not insulting exactly?
Also read what HE said.
Well Nekki it might have something to do with perspective. Treating someone as 'inferior' is entirely different from insulting them - you assume it's the same thing because in your mind everyone should and will always have the same reaction to one as they do the other, and that reaction is to take offense, so there is no difference between them. Whether or not someone takes offense to something is entirely up to them, and one might offend someone whereas the other may not. So while you might think they're the same thing, they are not.
Does that make me responsible for their actions? Well put it another way, Nekki, are you responsible for the actions of others? That's a largely misunderstood concept, because in this day and age many people are all about making others do exactly that - having others take responsibility for their own actions or reactions. Many positions of authority have this kind of principle embedded in the ideology of that position. "He said something i dont like, dont agree with or made me so angry i smashed my keyboard - he should apologize/fix it/get fired!" The only person responsible for you is you.
So was i really insulting people or treating them in an inferior manner? Well that's not your call - it's mine, since i was the performing the action. Am i to be held responsible for how you react to it? As much as you would like that to be the case, i am not. If you feel like me telling you that your ability to read is insufficient is offensive... well... good luck with that.
As for who am i to tell them their feedback is wrong and they have no right to express themselves: Looking past that i was correcting the factual inaccuracy of one topic; The former is Riptor doing to me what he perceives me doing to them, so while i'm a miscreant for doing it, he's entirely able to without reserve, free of persecution (ironically) with the latter simply not being the situation.
To summarize: It's not alright for me to tell someone their information regarding a specific topic is inaccurate, but it's ok for others to tell me that im not allowed to do so. So they can post their opinions while i cannot.
Toodles.
Edited by DrxAbstract, 24 September 2013 - 12:02 PM.