wanderer, on 25 August 2014 - 11:56 AM, said:
Behold, the feel-good, pop-psych response. Remember, nobody's to blame because if we say you're bad, you'll have issues and never overcome the issues. Circular reinforcement of "failure is good".
Give yourself a pat on the back for that. Did this make you feel better? Okay. If we're done being condescending, I didn't say anything what you implied.
My point is, most people who aren't good players know that already. What you're doing is simply calling them something they already know. Most people strive to be better. I strive to be better in any game I play. When you say that hey, you need to stop sucking, that actually helps nothing. Simply calling out "bad play" doesn't help no one. If you tell them how they sucked, they might improve.
I've gotten the picture from your replies that you simply tell people they suck, but offer them no insight on how. That makes you part of the problem why people aren't getting any better. Surprisingly enough most players heed advice if you're polite, rather than saying "OMG U NUB SRM ONLY HAZ 270M RANGE" saying "Player X, you're generating unnecessary heat firing SRM on enemy that far away, it only has 270m range" works far better. I've actually seen players pick up on this advice right away they've read it and scoring a few kills.
But hey, if you enjoy being a jerk because "it weeds out the weak" well, that's your prerogative.