Wintersdark, on 06 September 2015 - 01:07 PM, said:
Oh, give me a break. I'm sure your smarter than that.
Obviously, I'm not saying I want to literally punch him in the face, nor am I advocating actual physical violence.
But the underlying point is this: in grown up society, people do not peak off at random strangers they do not walk up to strangers on the street and scream at them, and if you saw that happening, I'm sure you wouldn't tell the poor person being yelled at/insulted that they ought to "grow a thicker skin". That is simply unacceptable behaviour, and the reality is that people who act like that are eventually ostracised, because nobody wants those people in society.
In real life, you learn not to do those things because there would be consequences. You may get punched, though that's admittedly unlikely because some people have manners, but people just refusing to associate with you or deal with you at all is likely. And in real life, there's no easy way to just start over - those bridges, once burnt, remain burnt.
If its not OK in real life, its not OK online.
Thats simply not true.
In white suburban upper middle class white society...what you say is true. Its not "adult society" and it hasnt been for DECADES.
I have to tone down considerably to be here and not get permanently banned. If we all acted like my friends, family, wife, coworkers, we'd all be playing other games. Smacking each other in the balls, playing pranks, cursing, arguing with strangers, is the norm. Were not rude. Its not like were going down to where you guys hang out and acting like jerks. If we acted this way to people who didnt want it, it would be wrong.
So it makes sense that trying to E-Police someone because of the way they act, is acting some way against someones will too right?
A night playing actual Battletech with friends, involves beer, a bong, copious amounts of cursing and smack talk. Most of which would make George Carlin or Larry Flynt blush. Thats perfectly acceptable. At a rock concert is perfectly acceptable. Because these are events that people who act like that set up for themselves because they dont want to have to deal with people telling them how to behave.
It would be nice if we could just find an acceptable middle ground between punching each other, and putting pickles in your beer.
You guys can be polite. We'll be snarky. We'll both still have a good time shooting mechs ok?
GG close.