Vellron2005, on 20 November 2017 - 02:30 AM, said:
4) If a light rushes you, don't call for help via the command wheel. Nobody answers that. Everybody thinks its just some light that got stuck behind enemy lines.
Or, as in my case, they don't think you're worth the effort of saving most of the time.
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People are very toxic in this game, and LRM boats get a lot of undeserved toxicity. If someone is being toxic in chat or over VOIP, just on the basis of somebody's LRM usage, report them. We LRM users gotta stick together, cose' nobody else will care.
People really aren't that toxic in this game. I don't see a lot in game and I rarely have toxicity directed at me. If you are getting a lot of toxicity it's likely due to your actions and you should consider what you are doing that is provoking toxicity.
I'm not defending true toxicity, but a lot of what gets called "toxicity" often isn't or is minimally toxic. Is saying that LRMs 20s are bad you should change builds toxicity? Is telling a LRM boat in the back to share armor toxicity? Is stating that LRMs a bad (they are) toxicity?
A lot of the so called "toxicity" that LRM boats get is well deserved. They sit in the back and lob missiles at any lock they can get. They complain about their team not holding locks. They don't share armor or contribute meaningfully to the team. They refuse to listen to advice on how to get better and they whine when the team does come to save them from their mistakes.
Not all LRM boats are like this, but a large number of them shows one or more of these behaviors and the players that end up having to pick of the slack get tired of dealing with it.
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3) Expressing an opinion that nobody asked you about, or wants to hear
This response is why I gave up trying to help bad players a long time ago. Even when I was truly trying to help players get better they don't want to listen to feedback (e.g. I've been chewed out for telling someone that it wasn't a good idea to bring ERLLs to scouting).
In my opinion you're one of the more toxic players in the game/forums. The fact that you're under warning should be a hint that there might be a problem with your behavior, not just the players you are running into.
Let's look at some examples:
Vellron2005, on 20 November 2017 - 03:50 AM, said:
I proceeded to berate him
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1) Most definitely NOT helping, in fact only edging me on to bring even more LRM or to go AFK just to spite you
This sounds like toxic behavior on your part.
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2) Expressing YOUR OWN lack of civility and manners
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7) Reminding everybody why birth control is a good thing.
Ah, yes. How very civil and mannered of you to suggest that someone shouldn't have been born.
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the worst thing they can get from you is a useless AFK LRM boat. You DON'T have to play with toxic people. And them having one less active player will hurt them the most. Make sure you don't disconnect, so as to not rack-up penalties, but also, don't be a douche and power down, that just hurts the innocents by prolonging the inevitable. Sure, they may report you, but you report them too, so it kinda evens out. And support doesn't really do anything about that anyway..
And now you are literally urging people to break the TOS by not participating just because someone hurts your feelings in a match.
To switch gears a bit.
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4) Ruining the game for 11-23 other people.
It goes both ways. Have you considered that by running LRMs you are potentially making the game less fun for 11-23 other players? Players can run their mouth all they want and it doesn't bother me at all. If it's too bad I can always block them. What ruins my game is when my teammates decide to go AFK or run some stupid troll build. I couldn't care less what my teammates/enemies are saying in chat. Just play the game.
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Also, know that if you are truly being bullied by other people's toxicity for your LRM boat playstyle, especially if they are telling you that you are not puling your weight, sharing armor, being their meatshield and such (all common toxicity arguments),
You aren't being bullied if players are telling you you aren't pulling your weight when you aren't. It's a team game and people are naturally going to be frustrated when they feel like their teammates aren't contributing. Players are going to want to vent. Drop the persecution complex. Is it really that hard to ignore someone who tells you your build/play is bad?
Vellron2005, on 20 November 2017 - 03:50 AM, said:
Not only does he treat random PUGS as HIS personal flying monkeys (I mean, I'm sorry, when did I sign up to be your bloody subordinate?!) but he then justifies it to himself as actually helping?!
Liking being told to "hold locks"? It's a team game. It's fair for your team to have some expectations for your performance. You can do what you want, but you have to live with the consequences of your choices.
Consider that you are basically saying, "I'm going to play the way that I want regardless of how it affects the fun of anyone else in my game." That's your right, but it's fair for your team to voice their dissatisfaction with your chosen mentality.
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5) Making most of the other players re-think their choices about playing an online game with such filth.
If you can't handle people complaining and calling you out on your choices in an online game then I don't think online games are for you.