Vellron2005, on 05 July 2017 - 11:17 PM, said:
Here's my 2 cents:
This is a videogame. It's meant to be fun. And I will never ever let anyone else tell me how to play, what to bring, and what not to.
I have already had a few serious arguments over this issue before.
NO I will not change my dropdeck to exactly the mechs you tell me to bring, with the exact loadouts you tell me to put on. It's MY game, not yours.
And I will defend my right to have fun until the servers shut down!
I may not be the best out there, but I'm certainly not the worst, weather I bring LRMs, laservomit, or something else.
Yesterday, I was bullied, berated and laughed at by a 7 or 8-man of a particular Smoke Jag unit I dropped FP with. They would not stop bullying me verbally the whole match o both chat and Voip. They treated me unbelievably mean, even evil, and got reported for their trouble.
I actually did pretty well, considering that it was basically me against the world..
And why? Cose' I would not let them run my game for me. Yes. I brought LRMs. The builds and mechs I'm good with, and that give me the best results of my MWO career. But this was not enough for these bullies.
So I said to my self "flack em'".
I asked them to stop repeatedly.. this only seemed to spur them on..
Reports were sent in.
I do not care how good you think you are, actually are, or aren't.
It DOES NOT give anyone the right to be a bully.
it DOES NOT give you the right to tell me what to bring.
It DOES NOT give you the right to treat me with disrespect.
It DOES NOT give you the right to run my game for me.
When and if I ever get to Tier 1, I will still be bringing LRMs. And Laservomit. And whatever the hell I want. And everybody else has absolutely no say in it.
Get over it.
Its MY GAME.
I'm sorry to hear you had such a toxic experience, and you were right to report the players; one of the hardest things to overcome for me when I first started was how toxic the community can be and how unsupportive of new players some people are in-game (though then I discovered some online guides and youtubers who are really informative, check out Kanajashi, Molten Metal, and M4J35T1C on youtube if you haven't already).
The only thing I would disagree with you is a minor discrepency in terms of role; if you play as an assault mech, I believe that it is fair to ask you to be at or near the front lines, drawing agro and tanking damage, as the class you chose is much better suited to that role than other classes; similarly, if you are a light mech, it is also fair to ask you to do some scouting, for many of the same reasons.
To use a real world analogy, imagine we are playing a game of basketball. You are well in your rights to ask the tallest player on your team to guard the tallest player on the opposing team, as their physical attributes give them a chance while shorter players will just get dunked on. Now, can you force the tallest player to do that? No, of course not, but you would be justifiably upset when the game ended and the opposing team's tallest player completely dominated the court because no one of his size was guarding him (especially if the tallest player on your team had circles run around him by a smaller, more agile player).
Always remember, that while you have both the right and the ability to play any way you like, the game forces us into teams and it is in everyone's best interest to work together and cooperate.