MegaBopper, on 22 August 2018 - 11:48 AM, said:
When a suggestion is made in a supportive constructive manner that is one thing. When it is done by spraying bile all over the person implying they have no right to exist that is another. It crosses the line.
Agreed, but unfortunately nobody seems to understand the difference between them. I played a PUG faction drop yesterday... polar highlands, domination. We lost our first wave 1-12. We were mostly close range mechs, many of which were slow assaults or smaller mediums. Very few fast heavies, which is what you'd need if you wanna sustain a brawl push into an opponent with a range advantage. After that wave, I suggested that everyone that brought such close range mechs should bring longer range things next time on this map, because it's almost always a long range battle.
Some guy got angry at me, kept telling me to learn to play, that it's our fault for being "ER Sniper Cowards Who Refused To Push" (I had an ER Battlemaster, kept back and tried to counter-snipe some of the enemies ER Laser boats). He kept arguing that I should learn how to play. In the end, it was like 15-30 by the time the counter ticked down. I had 4 kills, 1800 damage, dude arguing with me had 0 kills, 200 damage.
People take any criticism personally, regardless of how correct or gently it is made. It leads to me being slightly jaded and bitter, and at times maybe being a bit sarcastic in game when I see garbage builds, but I've never *EVER* seen a guy actually take criticism well.
Another example... a unit member in my previous unit asks if he should use small lasers or small pulse lasers as a backup weapon on his Phoenix Hawk with an ERPPC and some machine guns. I suggest he should stick to a certain range, and optimize for it... like go for all ER Medium lasers, or go for all pulse / machine guns. He refuses to listen, instead says he likes being effective at all range. Sure... but that's going to ensure you're bad at all ranges you engage at instead of having a good range you should try to be in. Nobody actually wants to listen, they just want to have their own opinions reinforced.