Like all things.. anyone's choices, in moderation, are their own business. There is always opposition to a minority, especially one who differs from the expected "norms" of society. Lets however consider that those "Furries/ponies... what have you" are also people. While their needs and drives may differ from the hard core mech heads (Nerds with a mechanical disposition), they are no different in their goals, have fun with those of a similar mindset, they like scifi, and war games, they just go the next step that maybe we wouldn't and dress (talk, walk, sneeze whatever) in an different manner and see a softer light (pastel if you will) than others who generally enjoy this genre of games. A love of the color pink should not reduce the value you might come to find in someone, a potential friend. I have a lot of friends who find my love of war history illogical and brutal, and dare not cross the discussion boarder with me on the topic. My ideas, frankly, rarely meet the accepted social experience, I am to dark, to cruel and to in-compassionate, when I discuss such things the use of tactical nuclear weapons on a battlefield.
Does that mean that the "pony brigade" or "furry experience" is for me, to the contrary, I find it obnoxious and silly. But I will not judge the individual contributors to those groups based on the group think as long as they don't come to my door, and try to convert me, which wouldn't work, I hate pastels.
This will be my last post on this matter, I welcome players, regardless of their color wheel choices or texture of their outfits as equals. They are humans, regardless of the anima they attempt to perceive themselves as. But before I let their color choices determine the value I place on them or their in-game contribution, I will engage them as myself, the hard core nerd, with a rather drab camouflage color pattern selection and likely in sweat pants and TOOL Tee Shirt. While we might or might not not like each other in the end, I will offer them the same hand in friendship to start with, the same chance to engage me in conversation about mutually enjoyed topics, but if that course leads to "ponyriffic" discussion, I will kindly divert myself back to my comfort zone with the care, compassion and caution, of doing so with self respect and respect for others. Those on either side of the fence who cannot moderate their"push" for "their way", trying to cram their idea of right and wrong down the throats of the middle, need watch for the red eyed anger of the middle when the extreme perspectives get tiresome to those of us who are more moderate.
To declare unconditionally that the select life choices (color choice, fur choice.. whatever) of others should be held in in-game abstinence is to put your own neck on the chopping block next. Your perception, found so "hardcore" now,can be brought to question by those to whom you agreed with at first, but are found wanting by that group, for also not being "hardcore" enough later.
Peace, moderation, respect and PPCs, see you all under the crosshairs!
End of Rant...That's just my opinion, I could be wrong.
Edited by Vexgrave Lars, 11 March 2012 - 10:39 AM.