Here's a thought to pugging in general.. and it has less to do with premades than it has to do with communicating with OTHER HUMAN BEINGS... or lack thereof.
PUGGING is hard. It's not meant to be easy and it certainly is NOT FORGIVING. It is an experience where people will go through just to grind... especially when they have no friends available to play with them. It can be an experience in "hating on the last option possible". It's not the end of the world.
This game by far endorses and LITERALLY FUNCTIONS on teamwork. So, if you ever decide to make a random friend on the Internets, it's not a bad thing to do. You should really consider it, AND my suggestion does NOT require you to get any sort of voice chat (but, for your own benefit, you should strongly consider it).
The thing is, this game sometimes can be... unplayable w/o any semblance of teamwork. It doesn't mean you need to be right next to hugging distance to another person... it simply means you need to figure out how to work together. The thing about premades is that they are willing to play together... it's not all of them willfully stack just to screw with you (a portion will, but the majority does not). They just want to enjoy each other... challenge each other... HELP each other.
The problem that primarily exists with MWO is that we have no PUG/TEAM feature that unifies them like some sort of in-game audible messaging system (I don't mean voice chat). I mean vsay type of messages used in various games. While the current lance system still needs improvements (because, it's still kinda lackluster in effectiveness at times), people don't develop a routine to get better... and this game provides little to no training on how you can get better, outside of spectating others while dead... which still doesn't always provide the insight required for a player to get better. It's not that PUGs aren't willing to help other PUGs... but the current system doesn't really produce a method to formalize training. It's almost like you need a heightened skill level or understanding of this game to begin with to even become reasonably adequate in pugging. This is not impossible to teach, but it's difficult to convey through the limited time while pugging.
In sum (or TL;DR), the game even with the nature of the awful trial system can easily make one /ragequit (and it's not hard to do). What YOU and the COMMUNITY has to do (while PGI seemingly refuses to understand and help improve the game) is to help each other out. Yes... helping the PUGs that are in their godawful trial mechs is a effectively a requirement. Otherwise, all we end up doing is a very bastardized version of a "Trial By Fire" where everyone trying to PUG is forced to have a backbone to survive or... just stay alone in this cruel world of pugging. It doesn't hurt to MAKE FRIENDS in this game (and you don't need voice chat to do it with). So for the honest truth, you really should take that option or continue in this vicious cycle...
The best you can do is really do is complain to PGI about how the other systems (not MM related, but more of game functionality) should be improved to promote teamwork... because that's really PGI's problem, not yours.
Edited by Deathlike, 28 June 2013 - 09:59 PM.