Master Pain, on 24 December 2014 - 06:51 PM, said:
You guys are right. I'm clearly the worst player in the Inner Sphere. I am single handedly dragging down my team with my mere presence. Every single game I play, I remove any chance for my team to win. I am so sorry I ever tried. Clearly 1 bad player out of 12 is more than enough to doom any team to getting its ass handed to them every time.
Actually, you very well could be.
You see, it doesn't matter if you're the best player or the worst. If a team has even ONE player that's doing their own thing and not working towards the collective group effort, the team falls apart. That's why there's so much emphasis on getting the first kill in the normal solo/group queues. That one kill creates an advantage to the team that still has 12 mechs, which makes it easier to get the 2nd kill, then the 3rd, and so on.
Called the snowballing effect, and it doesn't just happen with kills.
Don't believe me? I'll just use myself as an example.
The past 3 leaderboard tournaments I've placed 2nd, 1st, and 10th, respectively. I've almost always been the top scorer on my team, win or lose, and very often the top scorer in the game. I got into a habit of thinking I always had to carry, so I became more aggressive.
Within my Clan, I've gotten angry at those that drop with me on countless occasions, talking about how they need to step it up, how I don't like carrying them, etc.
Guess who was bringing down the team?
That's right. It was me.
You see, it didn't matter that I frequently got top damage. I was in a solo mindset, and wasn't playing with my team. I was being overly aggressive in my maneuvering that I frequently got myself taken out of the occasion early on, which put the team down a player. Doesn't matter how much damage I did. They still have 12 mechs. My team has 11. I am far more valuable to stick with the team as a team player than I am to be a good solo player.
Once I learned this, I started throttling back, forcing myself to work with my team. The result? We started winning more matches. Never would have thought.
Now, I'm not telling you this to brag, or anything of that sort. I'm 27. I'm beyond thinking of myself too highly in video games. I'm telling you this because multiple people have already said the same thing, but it seems perhaps they weren't using the right examples? Whatever it is, the message wasn't getting through.
I know it seems like people are attacking you by saying you're probably the weakest link, the common denominator, etc. Trust me, we aren't trying to piss you off. It comes across as harsh, but it's a lesson I think most of us had to learn the hard way. Individuals fail. Teams win.