Sandpit, on 28 December 2015 - 03:22 PM, said:
If you say this to me, you automatically go on my block list and I ignore any further contact and communication with you. Period
It doesn't matter playing "well" because it's a PUB drop. I've heard this several times over the past week or so.
The PUB queue isn't your personal toilet. It isn't where you get to go to "screw around and play horribly" just because.
Yes but it is just a game, and people not cooperating with you doesn't give you a right to go batshirt crazy at them or yell at them/call them names. Absolutely not saying you do but this generalised "I am holier than though, It's a team game and I know better" attitude generally breeds toxicity.
Jump in a game and play, someone does something you don't like - give them constructive criticism if you feel like it... or just move on with your life, don't go mental at them. So the whole team is blobbed together and actually trading quite well... you rage hard about pushing.. don't go ape when the suggestion to hold and be patient is suggested(just using a recent example not reflective of you here)
You want results... actually be nice to people.. throw ideas around don't just demand of everyone to do what you want. Remember that not everyone is on the same level, and some people just want to have fun.
Absolutely agree it's a team game, but it's not fun for anyone when some try hard is raging at the team or an individual because they think they are useless... the community can't be great unless people are nice and constructive.
So you're being positive and constructive and someone says it's just pub? Lost cause, move on and forget about them.. threatening to block them/not talk to them is childish.. they are already being dismissive and childish and you just dropped down to their level.
Admittedly I rage but it's at my screen, I never open voice coms or text chat to pick out something negative and let rage... because I'm not a cassive munt.
TL;DR = never go full ******, quit being entitled and expectant of how another individual should behave. There's more important things in life and even if you're an amazing player or a skilled leader/tactician: you win some, you lose some.
Apologies to my clan brethren for using contraction, it is very uncharacteristic of me.